I do hear what you’re saying. When people don’t want help, any advice just irritates them. But what if they continually talk about their issues and all anyone says is, ‘gee that’s bad luck, sorry to hear that,’ and years pass without the person taking any position action. What if they end up suffering sever depression or blame you for being dismissive. And also if someone is continually talking about their problem for years and years, people end up getting sick of listening to them. Could you at least say – why don’t you seek help from a councillor or a psychologist.